An hour earlier I had met the uncle being criticised so, and he'd complained non-stop, "Go for a walk," she tells me. "Arre, I don't want to go for a walk. All the nerves in her head are creating a short circuit and her brains are fried," diagnosed the old man.
Once inside he muttered that he'd refused a friend's invitation to join him for a drink because we were on our way, and he may as well have gone if he'd known we'd stand him up like this.
Conciliatory, at the dinner table we offered him the drinks menu. I asked the aunt, "What will you have?"
"Water," he replied on her behalf, even as she wrested his cane from his grip and leaned it against the sofa.
Anando and I exchanged smiles.
Forty years ago, they got married, after our aunt fought to convince her rich ghoti family because she had fallen in love with a bangal man.
Four minutes ago, our aunt said as an interlude to her grumbling, "When I see all these old men I still think your Pishe is much more handsome."
Exactly three years ago, Anando and I got married.
Forty years later, I wonder where we'll be!
10 comments:
From careful sociological observation I have surmised that grumbling and sniping are two of the most reliable signs of a long and successful marriage. In 40 years, inshallah, you too will be grouchy and thriving. :^)
Dont think what will happen after 40 years! A bangal will remain a bangal!
Well, I enjoyed reading it. Did Bulbul read it?
Baba
Daroon likhecho. Raja key portey bolo.
Baba
Happy anniversary! May you be similarly grumpy and grouchy 40 years later :))
Rrishi: Oh, somedays we're already there!
Baba: Ha ha, thanks for commenting. "Raja" does not read my blog.
A Muser: Thanks! We're working on it. Now it's not bickering. It's an investment in our relationship!
Nicely written. Stumbled on your blog after a search on "Tumhari Amrita", that entry was a pleasure to read too.
Ayush: Welcome to Thinking Cramps, and do come back. Thanks for your words.
nice... this post reminded me of my folks who celebrated their 47th year together early this year. 47!!!
i complete 10 years next year and wonder how many more years will we have of companionship and togetherness.
Very sweet and from seeing my parents as well as personal experience, I totally agree with the first comment on this post.
Belated Happy Anniversary Ana and Anando . You'll be exactly where you are my dear :))) Things like this grow better with the years .
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